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A 14-year-old youth was discovered deceased just days following being falsely blamed of stealing the ashes of a dead infant during a break-in, an inquest has learned.

Heartbreaking Finding

The young boy's parents discovered his remains in his room at his Connah's Quay residence on November 19th, 2021.

Untrue Accusations Begin

The investigation learned how his mother got a communication on November 8th, 2021 via online platforms, from a woman inquiring if Kai was her offspring. The communication stated: "Tell him appreciation for burgling my flat."

In a statement read to the proceedings, Lisa Lloyd said the individual had been in the media, asserting her baby's ashes had been taken in a burglary - a claim which was untrue.

Law Enforcement Inquiry

An official inquiry from authorities later determined the supposed break-in victim had "lied to police" and "it now appears that said items was never taken in the first place".

News coverage about the alleged taken ashes generated online comments, and although the teenager was not identified in the posts, his mother said people "knew it was him".

The "social media content were extremely distressing", she said.

Emotional Wellbeing Effect

She added that her son had been diagnosed with mild attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, and as part of that condition, other peoples' opinions really mattered to him.

"This must have hurt him deeply," she commented, "particularly when this was not true".

The teenager was detained at home, but nothing was found. He was transported to a police station and later released pending further inquiry.

Authorities said they would be in touch, the inquest heard, but had failed to reached out to the relatives by the moment of his death.

Withdrawal and Worry

His mother said Kai "became isolated" after the detention and "would keep asking me whether I had received anything from the authorities", because his condition meant sometimes "certain periods could feel like much longer".

When she talked to him about the supposed burglary, she said her child informed her he had gone into the residence because the resident who lived there had said he could utilize the toilet anytime he needed, but denied removing anything.

Digital Harassment

In a joint statement between her and her spouse, Mrs Lloyd said her son was being bullied online after the accusations.

The inquest learned that one young adult urged Kai to kill himself.

She had no concerns on the night before he died, describing how she had heard him "laughing and teasing".

She portrayed him as a "compassionate, affectionate" young man, and said her "family is totally shattered".

He had been "obviously concealing his concerns", she said, adding that he could not stand to have anybody "have negative thoughts of him".

School Response

The inquest received testimony from school staff at Connah's Quay secondary school.

On 8 November, she "overheard some boys discussing that Kai had been arrested and that was the initial I heard".

"He told me... he'd was innocent," she added.

After the discussion, the staff member said she called the family's family landline and left a voicemail saying she had communicated to the student about the allegations.

The court heard his parents said they never got that communication.

Formal Finding

Lead investigator informed the hearing he would wait for documents regarding what enhancements had been made to dealing with suspects with the condition, before deciding whether he should make a avoidance of future deaths report.

Delivering a descriptive finding, he said: "Approximately November 8th, 2021, unsubstantiated allegations were made against the teenager, a young child.

"Probably falsehoods were afterwards exaggerated and amplified through the platform of online networks.

"During November 11th, he was questioned by the police and after his interview he was released whilst inquiries continued."

The coroner concluded: "Exists no evidence that the actions or failures of any agency led to or added to his death and although it was the result of a self-inflicted action it is not possible to determine his intent."